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Our mission is to destigmatize kink and educate the public about being safe, positive and responsible while expanding into your kinky desires.
Our courses and programs offer valuable BDSM and kink lessons from people who know the lifestyle because they have experience and training.
Not only are these classes chock full of insight you won't find anywhere else, but they are entertaining and fun, too!
Enjoy them at your own pace, in the privacy of your own home.
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BDSM 101
BDSM has grown in popularity recently due to references in mainstream media like the 50 shades series. While 50 Shades helped to bring BDSM out of the shadows and into the spotlight, it also left many curious how to bring BDSM safely into their bedrooms and relationships.
This online workshop, “BDSM 101,” gives you a blow-by-blow (pun intended) of the basics of BDSM.
FREE Conscious Consent
Our FREE online course, Conscious Consent, is a deep dive into boundaries and consent. This self-paced course can be done alone or with a partner. Learn how to know your own boundaries, respect others’, and communicate effectively and sensitively.
FREE Intro to Dom/sub Workshop
Want to learn all about domination and submission?
Have you ever been curious about BDSM and what it would feel like to have your partner dominate you or submit to you?
Have you ever had a partner or a casual encounter suggest you dom them and you didn’t know what to do or if you liked it?
If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then click the red button and learn all about the Dom/Sub Dynamic!
How to Execute a (Hot) BDSM Scene
Our BDSM Scene course is perfect for tops or dominants who are anticipating their first BDSM scene or looking to improve their scene work.
We provide a step-by-step guide to planning, setting up and executing sexy, top-notch BDSM scenes!
The art of command
If you are interested in being a better dominant (this is for newbies and experienced alike), then this class will be perfect for you! One of our most popular courses! Step into confident command and click the button below!
Femme Domme Masterclass
A masterclass for women/femmes/non-binary to learn how to step into their femme dominance. Learn all about femme domination in this fun, informative, and empowering class taught by BDSM coach, educator and bestselling author Emily Anne.
Surrender: How to Submit
New to BDSM and feeling unsure about how to submit to a dominant? Are you an experienced sub and want to take your submission deeper?
Are you a feminist and want to find a safe and authentic way to find "submissive bliss"?
If you answered "yes" to any of the above, then this class is perfect for you!
Sexting and Dirty Talk
Want to learn all about Dirty Talk and Sexting Techniques? Want to get REALLY GOOD at seductive speech in person, on dating apps, on the phone or via text? Want to never be "tongue tied" again in bed?
If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then click the red button and learn how!
BDSM, Codependency and Attachment
If you are interested in being a better dominant / submissive / kinkster... or just a better human, then you will want to know how to identify behavior in yourself and your partner. Communication in BDSM and kink is centered around relationship dynamics. This class will teach you how to identify relationship patterns that get in your way.
High Vibe Kink
Do you feel stuck in your life?
Or are there parts of your life or goals that just seem blocked? Not making enough money? Not finding the right partner?
Have you tried all the manifestation tools, but still find yourself not getting what you want?
Are you willing to dig deeper and change your life?
If so, then you are a good candidate for High Vibe Kink!
Kinky Manifestation
Tap into your PLAYFUL, kinky, erotic brain and use your body as a magic wand to let the Universe start hurling forth manifestations that you didn't even think possible.
When you open up to your kinky desires, your life can shift and change in miraculous ways. This workshop will take your manifestation game to the next level!
cuckoldry
Want to learn all about cuckoldry?
Have you ever been curious when jealousy turned you on?
Have you ever had a partner or a casual encounter suggest you cuckold them and you didn’t know what to do or if you liked it?
If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then click the button below and learn all about Cuckoldry!
What People Say About Our Kink and BDSM Courses
"Taking The Art of Command class was a total game-changer for me as a Dominant. The class gave me clear guidance on how to give commands with confidence and purpose, which helped me step more fully into my power when domming. I especially appreciated the breakdown of different types of commands—whether for acts of service, worship, or sexual play—and how they can be tailored to different dynamics.
The examples provided were super practical, and I ended up making flash cards to help internalize the language and structure. It’s not just about giving orders—it’s about creating a shared experience rooted in desire, intention, and mutual understanding. This class helped me see that and gave me the tools to bring it to life in my scenes and relationships.
Highly recommend for any Dom/me wanting to deepen their command presence and communicate more effectively with their subs."
-Louis Swintelski (he/him)
“Who would've thought a BDSM website randomly found would be beginning steps to moving forward with my life!”
- JW
“Emily and Wendy are such amazing teachers and coaches they made us feel totally comfortable; we can't wait for the next one!”
-I.P.
“I've attended a number of Kinky Ted Talks with Emily and have found each of them educational, illuminating and fun! Her ability to distinguish the nuance of different energetics between different styles of play, dynamics, and expressions is so valuable. Kink has saved my life in many ways and it feels so validating to hear Emily's perspective on BDSM/Kink to heal and transmute pain. Thank you for your work in the world Emily!! I adore being part of your community :)”
-Priestess Francesca, she/they
"Emily’s BDSM class was exciting, interesting and fun! It gave me new ways to think about my sexual desires and opened me up to possibilities that I had not considered. It was a wonderful step on my journey to explore and reclaim my sexual identity."
– Erin
“Emily is an amazing facilitator of space and the group! She is able to hold us in such beautiful and vulnerable space.”
- Queen C, she/they
FAQs
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Not at all. Our courses are designed for all experience levels—from curious beginners to seasoned kinksters. Each class provides clear explanations and safety guidelines.
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Yes. All our content is created with an emphasis on consent, safety, and mutual respect. We cover both physical and emotional safety, and all activities discussed are based on fully informed consent between adults.
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Courses explore a range of kink and BDSM subjects, including communication, negotiation, specific practices (like bondage, impact play, and power exchange), scene setup, aftercare, and building confidence in your play style.
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Simply click on the course button to be taken to a dedicated page with full details, curriculum information, and pricing. From there, you can sign up by completing your purchase directly on that page.
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Yes. Once enrolled, you can access the course materials anytime, anywhere. You can pause, replay, and revisit lessons as often as you like during your access period.
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Absolutely. We take your privacy seriously. Your billing information will appear discreetly, and all course participation is confidential.