FEMME SUBMISSION CLASS
Surrender Is Not Weakness — It’s Power, Trust, and Erotic Intelligence
Live on Zoom — Taught by Emily Anne
Head Coach, The BDSM Coaches
Date: March 7
Time: 11 AM PST
Early Bird: $35
Regular Price: $55
What if your desire to submit isn’t a flaw…
—but a doorway to your deepest pleasure, power, and authenticity?
Many feminine-centered people feel a pull toward surrender — toward letting go, being held, being guided, being taken care of, or simply being allowed to feel instead of lead.
But modern culture gives us mixed messages:
• “Submission means weakness.”
• “Strong people don’t need anyone.”
• “If you’re feminist, you shouldn’t want this.”
• “Good girls don’t.”
• “Bad girls shouldn’t.”
So the desire gets buried… judged… or acted out without guidance.
This class is a space to reclaim submission as conscious choice, erotic agency, and embodied power.
This Class Is For You If…
You feel curious about submission but don’t know where to start
You struggle to “let go” even though you want to
You’re strong, independent, or “alpha” in daily life and crave a place to soften
You want to deepen an existing D/s dynamic
You want to understand subspace, surrender, and emotional safety
You want to be submissive without losing your autonomy
You want to support your partner’s dominance in a healthy way
You’re new to BDSM or exploring feminine polarity
You’re experienced but want deeper understanding
Or simply…
You feel “the call” to submit and want guidance that is grounded, ethical, and empowering.
What Femme Submission Actually Is (And Isn’t)
Submission is NOT:
• Being weak
• Being controlled against your will
• Losing your voice
• Being a doormat
• Performing a stereotype
• Ignoring your needs
Submission IS:
• A conscious exchange of power
• Deep trust and communication
• Emotional and nervous-system safety
• Erotic polarity
• Choosing surrender
• Letting yourself feel
• Allowing someone else to lead — by consent
As Emily explains:
“The submissive actually holds the power.
The dominant holds the control that the submissive has chosen to give.”
What You’ll Learn in This Class
Foundations of Power Exchange
• How dominance and submission actually work
• The difference between power, control, and force
• Why submission requires strength, not weakness
• The energetic polarity between leader and follower
• Why submission can be deeply balancing for driven people
Understanding Surrender
• Why letting go can feel difficult
• Control, independence, and trust issues
• How to build safety in your body
• Ways to move out of overthinking and into feeling
• How play helps bypass the ego and anxiety
• Practical techniques to soften into surrender
Subspace and Sub Drop
• What subspace actually is
• Why it feels euphoric
• How to enter it safely
• Emotional and physical aftereffects
• How to plan for sub drop
• The importance of aftercare
Communication and Consent Skills
• Negotiation for scenes and relationships
• Setting boundaries without killing the mood
• How to express desires clearly
• The submissive’s responsibility in communication
• Why more intense play requires more communication
• Safe frameworks like RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Feminine Energy and Polarity
• Masculine vs. feminine energetic roles
• Structure vs. flow
• Containment vs. receptivity
• Why polarity fuels attraction
• How submission can feel deeply “yummy” and regulating
• Finding YOUR version of feminine submission
Supporting a Dominant Partner
• How to help your partner step into leadership
• What Dominants actually need from submissives
• Gratitude, responsiveness, and feedback
• Creating mutual pleasure and synergy
Types of Submissives
• Alpha subs
• Brats
• Service-oriented subs
• Sensual submissives
• Emotional surrender types
• New vs. experienced dynamics
You’ll discover what YOUR submissive style is — not what you “should” be.
Safety and Partner Selection
• Red flags when vetting a Dominant
• Trust vs. blind submission
• Why you should never override your instincts
• How to build trust gradually
• Choosing partners who can hold you safely
A Feminist, Inclusive Approach to Submission
This class does NOT promote outdated gender roles or coercion.
It teaches consensual power exchange grounded in autonomy, respect, and choice.
Emily shares from lived experience as both a Dominant and submissive (a “switch”), offering nuanced insight into both sides of the dynamic.
You Don’t Need Experience
New to BDSM? You’re welcome.
Experienced but curious? You’re welcome.
Already submissive but want deeper understanding? Definitely welcome.
Participation is optional — you may simply listen, reflect, and learn.
As Emily tells students:
You can participate as much or as little as you want — this time is for you.
Meet Your Instructor
Emily Anne
Head Coach — The BDSM Coaches
Emily has been coaching and teaching since 2017 and has extensive lived experience in both dominant and submissive roles.
Her teaching style blends:
• Real-world experience
• Practical tools
• Emotional intelligence
• Humor and warmth
• Zero shame
• Deep respect for consent
She describes herself as:
“Your guide on the side — your kinky bestie giving you the real lowdown.”
Why Students Love Emily’s Classes
• Non-judgmental environment
• Inclusive of all genders and orientations
• Real talk without academic stiffness
• Actionable advice you can use immediately
• Space to explore safely
• Empowering rather than prescriptive
Live Zoom Details
Date: March 7
Time: 11 AM PST
Location: Live on Zoom
Replay may be provided.
Investment
Early Bird: $35
Regular Price: $55
Give Yourself Permission to Want What You Want
Your desire to submit doesn’t make you weak.
It doesn’t make you broken.
It doesn’t erase your independence.
It might be one of the most powerful parts of you.
If you’re ready to explore surrender with safety, intelligence, and deep pleasure…
Join us.