Decolonizing Kink

Reclaim the Body. Reclaim the Bedroom. Reclaim Your Power.

Date: June 26th, 2025
Live on Zoom
Sliding Scale Registration (Details Below)


What if kink isn’t just taboo…

…but a powerful act of personal and cultural liberation?

Join BDSM coach Emily Anne and actor, teacher, and energy healer Dr. Budi Miller for a transformative 90-minute online experience exploring the intersection of kink, embodiment, and decolonization.

Whether you're a curious vanilla, a lifelong sub, a switchy seeker, or a freedom-loving dom(me), this class will invite you to peel back the layers of social conditioning—patriarchy, white supremacy, colonialism, heteronormativity, capitalism—and uncover your truest, wildest, freest erotic self.

 Why “Decolonizing” Kink?

Because for too long, our desires have been shaped—not by inner truth—but by outer domination.

In the West, we are taught to live in our heads, numb our bodies, fear power, and silence desire. We're told what "normal" looks like, who should lead and who should obey, who gets to express pleasure and who must suppress it.

But kink, when done with consciousness, isn’t about control—it’s about freedom.

It's a sacred space where we can:

  • Release shame

  • Rewire oppressive patterns

  • Play with power instead of being ruled by it

  • Reclaim voice, agency, rage, softness, and sensuality

Kink becomes a form of shadow work—not to perform rebellion, but to embody liberation.

 ✨ Somatic Freedom Through Movement

Dr. Budi Miller will guide you through body-based practices rooted in decades of actor training, breathwork, and energetic healing. These tools help you decolonize the nervous system, unwind egoic tension, and return to presence—so that your “yes” and “no” come from the truth of your body, not the script you were handed.

🖤 Erotic Liberation Through Conscious Kink

Emily Anne will share how BDSM and kink practices can be powerful vehicles for undoing patriarchal and colonial conditioning. You'll learn how to harness dominance, submission, fantasy, and structure as healing tools—even if you've never played before.

Expect deep insights, practical frameworks, and playful permission to reimagine what sex and power can look like in your life.


Who Is This For?

This class is for you if:

  • You’re curious about kink but unsure where to start

  • You want to break free from limiting beliefs about sex, gender, and identity

  • You sense that your desires are deeper than “just” pleasure—they’re about power, healing, and reclamation

  • You’re vanilla but open-minded—and want to expand your understanding of embodiment, boundaries, and erotic self-awareness

  • You’re kinky but want more depth, integration, and decolonial perspective in your play

  • You’ve ever felt like you were “too much,” “too submissive,” “too controlling,” or just not fitting the mold

 

Emily Anne

BDSM Coach | Educator | Founder of The BDSM Coaches
Emily combines kink, coaching, storytelling, and somatics to help people create radically authentic, intimate, and joyful power exchange relationships. Her work dismantles shame and builds confidence—whether you're new to kink or refining your dominance or submission.

“Kink isn’t something that makes you broken. It’s often the way you break free.”

Dr. Budi Miller

Somatic Coach | Actor & Director | Energy Healer
Budi’s work with actors centers on presence, ego release, and reclaiming the body as a site of knowing. His methods—drawn from physical theater, ancestral wisdom, and healing energy—invite people into deep alignment, creativity, and truth.

“To decolonize the body is to re-enter the sacred—where the body leads, and the mind listens.”

 
 

What You'll Leave With:

A deeper understanding of how colonial structures have shaped your erotic expression—and how to gently dismantle them

  • Embodied tools for reclaiming power and presence

  • Permission to feel, move, desire, and relate outside the rules

  • Practical ways to explore kink as liberation—not performance

  • A more intimate relationship with yourself and your voice (whether you want to lead, surrender, or switch between both)


Registration Info

Live Class: June 26th, 2025
Platform: Zoom (link sent upon registration)
Cost: $17

Replay will be available to all registrants.